Life Lessons

I decided that in "honor" of my 30th birthday, I would come up with a list of lessons I have learned over the years.  As I began my list, I realized that there are very few lessons that I can put in the category of "have learned" (past tense).  I have concluded that most life lessons are ones that we learn over and over.  They're not accomplishments.  They're things we keep working on and trying to remember and live by.  I didn't know if I would share my list or not, but maybe I will.  It was a profitable exercise for me, and I would encourage you to at least make one in your head even if you don't put it down on paper.  Here's mine - unedited and incomplete, in no particular order.  (There are 30.)

• So many things really don't matter.
• Don’t take things personally.
• The simple words, “I’m thinking about you” can mean a lot.
• Happiness is a choice.
• When people talk to you, listen to them.
• Don’t judge; there are a lot of facts you don’t know.
• Be patient.
• Kindness is powerful.
• Think before you speak.
• Look for what you can appreciate in people.
• Worrying is completely unprofitable.
• Let people know that you appreciate them.
• Children are amazing teachers.
• Enjoy today.
• Trust God.
• Having God’s approval is all that matters.
• When you’re full, quit eating.
• Be flexible.
• Say, “I’m sorry.”
• Do all you can do, and then accept it.
• Be honest.
• Be gentle.
• Don’t be afraid to ask questions.
• God’s timing is perfect.
• If you want the fruit, you have to be willing to pay the price to get it.
• Learn from the experiences of others.
• Respect the sacrifices of others.
• It’s easy to take for granted things I should be exceedingly thankful for.
• Consider others.
• Each day is precious; use it wisely.